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How do you know a guy who is ready for Marriage?
1. He Must have a Work he is doing.
The first thing to know a man who is ready for Marriage is if he has a work he is doing. When God created man in the garden of Eden, the first thing God gave him was a work, not a woman. Marriage Readiness for a man is not a matter of growing tall or fat, it's about a man finding his work. A man who does not have a work is not ready for Marriage. Why? Marriage comes with a lot of responsibility. You have to put food on the table, pay house bills, Electricity, water, clothing, medicals and when children start coming, the bills increase the more. A man who does not have a work should not be looking for a woman. A man should get a work first before looking for a woman to marry. When I talk about work, it doesn't necessarily mean it should be a big work. Any noble work that gives a man income sufficient enough to take care of himself and his wife is enough for the beginning.
2. He Should Know Where He is Going - Vision
Marriage Readiness for a man is about a man knowing where he is going in life. A man who does not know where he is going is not ready for Marriage. Dear lady, please don't follow a man who does not know where he is going, else two of you will get lost in the visionless and purposeless journey. A man must find his purpose before he starts looking for a life partner. A man who does not know where he is going is a disaster waiting to happen. How do you know a man who does not know where he is going? Today he tells you, "I want to be a footballer, the next day he tells you, "I want to be a pilot". He doesn't have a definite direction or destination. Dear lady, please ask him, where are you going? Because God sent a woman into the Marriage to help a man reach his destination. That a man has television does not mean he is ready for Marriage. If a man has television but does not have a vision for his life, he is not ready for Marriage. Marriage requires vision with precision.
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3. Character
Many guys are talented and gifted and unfortunately that's what many ladies are falling for. Don't fall for a man who has talent, fall for a man who has character. Talents can come and go, but character is who the guy is forever. A man who does not have character is not ready for Marriage. Dear lady, when you notice lies, hot temper, dishonesty, wickedness, pride and arrogance, immorality and lack of fear of God in a guy, don't take him serious when he is telling you anything about Marriage. You can be attracted by his talents and gifts but marry him only if he has character. Everything about Marriage rises and falls on character. If your Marriage is going to work, his character will determine it. Forget about his physical fitness, muscular body, handsomeness and eloquent speech, if his character is zero, he is not ready.
4. He Must Have his own Apartment or plans to get one before Marriage
A man who is hanging around in his friend's house is not ready for Marriage. If a man doesn't have a house where he is living, he is not ready for Marriage. Ladies shine your eyes, don't be carried away by his romantic voice and forget to ask him where he is living. Some guys are still living under their parents's roof yet they are going around looking for a woman to marry. Marriage Readiness for a man demands that a man should get where to lay his head first before looking for a woman to marry. A guy who is living under the bridge without a roof over his head does not need a wife. What he needs first is a roof over his head. It must not be a big house. Even if it is one room apartment. As long as it belongs to the guy and can give some measure of privacy and security to the woman, it's a good place to start.
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5. Maturity
Maturity is a sign that a guy is ready for Marriage. When we talk about maturity, it involves everything age, mindset, reasoning and understanding. Marriage is not for boys. Marriage is for mature men who have come of age. If a boy has not reached the age of puberty, how can he perform the sexual duties of a husband? That saying that age is only a number is deceptive. Age not just a number, it is a person. A boy of 12 cannot perform like a man of 30. Their sexual organs are different. Their sexual orientation are also different. Maturity in thinking, reasoning and understanding are signpost that a guy is ready for Marriage. If both of you don't agree on anything, please leave him alone. He is not ready for you.
6. A Man of His Word
A man who cannot keep his words or promises is not ready for Marriage. Some men are liars, not all. A real man who is ready for Marriage will not deceive you. This is how you know a guy who is ready for Marriage, his word is his bond. What he says in the morning is what he will say in the night. He doesn't promise and fail. He keeps his words and promises.
7. Transparent
When a man is ready for Marriage, he will be transparent in all his dealings with you. He will make his parents to know about you. He will introduce you to his friends. He will make his pastor to know about his intention to marry you. When a guy is dating you but doesn't want anyone to know about it, he is not ready to marry you. A guy who keeps you and your relationship with him in secret under the carpet of his bedroom is only interested in sleeping with you, catch fun with you, play with you and dump you for another chic. Men are adventurous in nature. When a man considers you to be the woman he wants to marry, you will notice he will be so proud of you and will like to show off with you to anyone who matters in his life. When a guy doesn't want even his parents to know you, he is not ready to marry you, period!
8. Giving
We all know that money is hard to get and men don't joke with their money. If a guy is not ready to marry you, he will not spend much on you. A man who is ready will be willing to give and spend for you expecting nothing in return. If a guy wants to have sex with you after paying for a lunch with you he is not ready. When a guy wants to sleep with you after buying you a new phone, car, clothes etc he is not ready. He only wants your body in exchange for his money. And only harlots exchange their body for money or other material things. Cheap girls can be bought with money. A noble woman can't be bought with money. Her price is far above rubbies. That a guy is giving and throwing money up and down on you doesn't necessarily mean he loves you or wants to marry you. Some guys can spend anything to have sex with a woman. Be careful when a man is giving you his money, please ask him, " what do you want from me?". If the motive of his giving is only for sexual gratification, he is not ready.
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9. Commitment
A man who is ready will be committed to you. He will be there for you at all times, in pains and in gain. A guy who is committed will be your shoulder to lean on in time of trouble. He will be interested in your success and personal development. He will go extra mile to ensure you are ok and fine. He takes responsibility for your welfare. He doesn't leave you nor forsake you. He will call you from time to time to know how you are doing. He will text you when he can't put a call across. He will show up in your events and occasions that matter to your life and destiny. His love and care are 100% genuine. If the guy you are dating now is not committed to you and your relationship with him, please leave him alone. He is not ready. The truth is when a guy is not committed to you, he may be committed to another woman. So don't kill yourself over a guy who doesn't care much about you.
10. He Should Know the Time He wants to Get Married
A man who does not know the time he wants to get married is not ready for Marriage. If you ask a guy when do you want to get married and he tells you things like, " I don't know, next ten years" , he is not ready. When a man is ready, he knows when he wants to settle down. He may not tell you the exact day but he has a definite clue of the year he wants to settle down. A guy who doesn't have a timeframe in mind for his marriage is likely to be a playboy. So dear lady, before you accept his marriage proposal, place ask him, when do you want to settle down? Some guys may be planning to get married in the next 20 years yet they are engaging a lady today for a marriage that is scheduled to happen in 20 years to come. Please check his time schedule to see if that's exactly what you want. Don't allow any guy to tie you down with an empty promise and ring that will never lead to marriage. Be wise my ladies.
Conclusion
The truth is many guys are not ready for Marriage. What they want is a woman to catch fun with and play around with. If you have read to this point, congratulations because I believe you have acquired the knowledge to check the marriage Readiness of any guy asking you for relationship. If you have any questions regarding this matter, please reach out to me in the comment box below or use my email address provided in the contact to message me directly.
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